Reader Matter:

Hi David,

I am 60 yrs . old, really healthy, really productive, and a rather wonderful lady. I had a very cold relationship for over 30 years. We joined as soon as We separated, had a couple of dates (they were terrible), right after which one popped upwards. I have outdated him on and off for just two years. He said he really likes me, but he vanishes all the time. We see him for several days, right after which he is gone for 2 to 3 months. He was hitched for 3 decades and it has three young children (similar to me personally) and says he has got commitment dilemmas and is watching a therapist about this. Their wife cheated on him and then he has drug and liquor issues.

Can I look at this man to-be dangerous? If he contacts myself once more (that I suspect he can), should I tell him not to ever contact me anymore, or must I merely tell him i like being with him but have always been making my personal possibilities available to day others?

-Nancy (Ca)

David Wygant’s response:

Should you think about he toxic?  No.

I’d think about him to-be a booty phone call.

Which is all they are.  He is a booty phone call.

The guy doesn’t want to make.  He’s coming up with quite a few excuses, but he likes to come more than and fool about.

When a man does that, all he’s undertaking is utilizing you as a sexual lover.

Confront him upon it if you would like, but one like him can certainly make upwards some form of tale never to be cut-off intimately.

So progress and  discover somebody who deserves you.

Committed you’ve been wasting considering him being with him is actually time you will be meeting a fresh guy.

Take pleasure in the process!